Most people would believe or like to think, that given a chance, they would love to start all over again and re-live their life in a brand new way, of course barring all the flaws, disappointments, failures, setbacks and surely anything negative that has impacted their life.
And when one would have done all that, one would like to believe that they would finally have achieved the quintessential feeling – Happiness and above all Success.
Now what we don’t realize the irony of Success and Happiness is that, they are best nourished and nurtured by their not so favorite adversaries and the notorious duo – ‘Failure and Sadness’.
It’s only when one has tasted the wine of failure that he or she is gonna savor the true taste of Champagne. If only when one has known or experienced repeated or prolonged sadness, one is going to cherish the golden and precious feeling of actually being happy.
So the point being, there is a fundamental flaw in our wish, of starting all over again with an illusion of making it right this time, considering our prior knowledge and experiences of the errors committed and to presume to have them corrected this time.
But what we don’t realize is, it’s only because of the timely failures and moments of sheer worthlessness and hopelessness and the lessons learnt the hard way, we have reached where we are today.
To elaborate the same, this symbolizes that we are where we are today due to the people, events, and circumstances that transpired with us in the logical sequence throughout our life’s journey, which truly has been instrumental in shaping our persona, belief systems and our overall way of life today.
Bottom line, experiences bitter or sweet, shape our lives, and make us learn lessons which ultimately mould our belief system. It gives us enough fodder for thought which ultimately carves our niche persona and thus sets us apart from each other in a broad way.
But essentially if we delve deeper into the major take aways from each of our lives, it would throw up a pattern and ultimately the moral would remain the same, i.e. what is that we learnt from Life…and how well are we going to embrace the lessons learnt and willing to make the necessary changes.
That being the ultimate reason for which we even went through the things that were thrown at us in the first place…Think about it!!!
Nothing happens without reason…the grand things in life do have a pattern; it’s on each of us to decode this insane dialect of the ultimate Author – The creator of the World’s greatest Book…
The Book of each of our lives penned by none other than, HE HIMSELF!!!
Have a Happy Weekend…