Man and Wo…man…

Hey there guys,

I’m back, if you missed me, or not..no worries..but I sure did miss talking to you guys…and today I’m bringing to you, the quintessential topic, the very reason our world even started….coz of the two coming together, Adam and Eve…symbolic of man and wo…man..and their relationship…

See, there can be so many things, that I could talk about Men and Women and what makes us the way we are..but of all things I would like to talk about the reason why we love to be together..and no matter what, believe me, no matter what, how much ever anyone denies, we cannot, cannot live without each other…

And the way our (as in Man and Woman) relation goes is…we fight we hate each other, we call each other names, we bicker, we bit…h..we swear, we feel like almost killing each other at times….but the moment the other goes away…we are done..we feel empty, we can’t breathe, we wait around desperately for our love to get back, we ask for forgiveness even if it isn’t our fault, we recite the words we would say to cajole them and bring them back to us…we shower them with gifts symbolic of our love…we write to them above all we miss them…and we crave to say we love you…to the one who we hurt…that’s our partner…be it a man hurting his woman, or a woman hurting her man…the moment the other goes away, we realize the importance of each other..and sense of belonging and crave for that togetherness again…

And this is for all those, who are madly and deeply in love with their spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends, fiances, would-be’s bride’s or grooms, or even partners….etc.

What I’m trying to say though, is no matter there will be so many, who sometimes might feel bonded in their love relationships but at such difficult times, one has to take time out to get to know each other, hear each other out, well listening to your partner’s needs and wants could go a long way in strengthening a relationship, and who ever is making the demand for something should not refrain from being reasonable, should not take over advantage of the other partners patience, give equal respect to each other, try to mend the situation, rather than name calling, bickering, fighting or making things worse and finally causing immeasurable damage to the relation as well as to each other, that it becomes irremediable and all this if one of the partners becomes incorrigible…

Although it is an understood fact, that people of opposite sexes can’t be totally, cent percent compatible with each other or so to say an epitome of perfection…but the remedy for all this is the imperfections within ourselves, that is why our partners are called our better halves, as they complete us, they fill the gaps which we have within ourselves, they make us into a whole person, with all the likeable and not so likable traits that we possess, but also correct our unlikable traits and we do vice versa..thus making two people as one…signifying two bodies yet one soul…and this should be the crux of any love relationship say, a marriage, a courtship, college romance, etc…

Respect each other for their in-conformity and help to fill it, not expect each other to be the epitome of perfection. Thus learning to dwell together, as our ultimate aim should be to bring about synergy in our relationship, coz that is what will strengthen it more, walking alone is not the answer…as co-existence is the name of the game..even for the Neanderthal man…so how can we be any different…

So guys, learn to co-exist, rather than craving for extinction, coz believe it or not, one day we all have to perish, so why be so petty and fight for smaller differences, or create misunderstandings due to lack of communication, etc…between each other as spouses or partners…after all the reason a man and a woman got together was for love, so why let it die so soon, but not crave for re-igniting it, I’m sure either could be wrong, but why is that we are ready to give it all away in a second, be it a relationship, or a marriage, but not realize the good that it brought for us when we were together…

So here’s to all the couples who love each other immensely…but sometimes drive each other nuts…but surely realize they can’t live without each other….and know each others worth in their lives…surely for a man…he has to woo his woman…that’s why the word is coined as Man – Wo….Man….

And last but not the least, if these cuties can love and co-exist, so can we….enjoy this pic…

Cheers!

Seeta

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2 thoughts on “Man and Wo…man…

  1. Hey Seeta,
    A very positive way of putting in LIFE. Well done and keep up your good writing. enjoyed every word, music and picture of it. Your good work would definately make a name. All the best and God bless.

    • Hi Shikha,

      That is so kind of you..thank you for your such honest response…and I’m glad that my writing has connected with you…its true, all of us are one big family and we all are traveling in this big time travel…but it would be fun, only if we take time out to share our love and warmth for each other…only then is our travel worthwhile and enjoyable…

      Thanks once again for your good wishes, I do need them and all your love and support, they mean a lot to me…and I do sincerely wish you all the love and good wishes in your journey of life as well…

      Warm Regards,
      Seeta

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